A year on and standing

[ovrrnbw]

This is tough. I'm at a loss for advice here TS. So I'm going to say that until you figure out a plan of how to respond, you try not to worry about what she is doing. Now that you've brought it up with her, she surely knows. She even knew before you spoke to her about it. I don't see that you are ready to divorce her, so I say you focus on your own stuff and try to let her go. Let her staying out all night be water off the duck's back.

What are you doing for self improvement and self growth?