Wife did not like that I was GAL. She made repeated comments about my vagueness on what I was doing. As I was leaving she hit me up with well at what time should I be worried if you don’t come home. She was convinced I was meeting someone. I wasn’t. Basically just running some errands.
So she filed very quickly after the BD. However she hasn’t wanted to talk. At all about splitting things up. When she brought up the lawyer retainer on Friday that I had put on the credit card same as she did she was upset. My lawyer received a copy of her filing this weekend after her lawyer finally filed it in the right county. She is seeking primary of the kids. I will not let that happen. She also is convinced that 50/50 means one week on and one week off. Which I informed her there were many different methods to 50/50. She basically doesn’t want to have to get a true 8-5 job. I’ve have supported her to follow her own business dreams for the last 10 years or so. She is used to working at her own rate as she wants and contributing little to none in terms of bills. I think her Hope was I would roll over and agree and pay for her continued quality of life. She is going to loose a Lot of perks that make life much easier for her. She tried to use scare tactics on me about the kids. I just kept calm with it.
We were supposed to finish our conversation on counseling last night but it was chaos putting the kids to bed so that will have to wait until today. She also asked me to read a book on parenting to talk to our older as since this all started she has had so behavior issues. I said sure. In the past I would of not read the book. But I am this time. Also the older daughter had a rough night was up froM 3-5am. She had a bad dream and was sad. She said she misses the way things were. She doesn’t know what is going on other then mommy and daddy having been has happy towards each other. She is 4.5 years old and very smart. I comforted her the best I could and tilde were love her very much.
So that’s where I’m at as of today. She also told me to have a good day when I left and already texted me this am.
M:39 W:36 D: 4 D: 2 BD:8/22/2019 Currently dealing with a WW
