Like OwnIt said, “Planning? What is that?” . Phffttt. MLCers.
Make a backup plan for daughter’s care, like grandparents or such. Might even be the primary plan if H doesn’t get his head out of..... the sand. (Oh, almost could feel the smack from job )
Have a great day.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.