I think what’s really bothering me is he doesn’t admit any fault . The late night partying .The barely speaking to each other for days . Being cold . I pointed out the last month he’s different when he’s here . He kisses me . Plans things . Doesn’t have this run out of the house mentality when he’s here . Seems focused on our family and R. His response was I’m no different . So I tried to validate and just said ok your not different but maybe I see you different . There’s no new R unless you embrace your failures and faults . We both agreed over the past month neither one has brought up R. I simply stated because we both have been working on our foundation together . Easily agreed. There is no M without it . Just feel like I got a bad vibe from entire convo and should have maybe cut it off earlier but who knows .
