Telling me living in 2 worlds is slowly killing him . He actually admitted to having a part of him wanting to come home but doesn’t trust we won’t fall back into the same patterns and have toxic fights . But also admitted the part of just wanting to not try anymore . I tried validating but did awful. I didn’t argue but said I’m never gonna ask you to come home that’s a decision only you can make .
It sounds like you did brilliantly. You were crying.. but you held it together.. still made an attempt.. and doesn't sound like you said anything that would worsen the situation. You can only expect so much of yourself. Part of the responsibility for a HappyEnding rests on him, as you say. I hope he chooses wisely!
