Journal -

So yesterday I went over to give her the divorce papers and pick up the last few things. This was supposed to be the last time we see each other but it wasn´t much that happened. I gave her the papers, explained what she needs to do, we hugged and I left.

This evening she messaged me a link to a restaurant, asking if I have heard of it. I responded -

Me: W, I´m trying to move on with my life and forget the previous. I can´t talk to you anymore. I understand that we have to speak at times to sort the details of our separation but once that is all sorted we can´t speak at all.

She hasn´t responded. I´m not sure what the right response from me there should be but I meant what I said. I want to forget about her. I can´t have her messaging me unless it´s important.


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019