Hey guys, took a bit of a break from posting, thought I’d give a little update.
I ended up having a few sessions with a DB counselor, really awesome guy. He greatly helped me figure out some things I was questioning.
Things with W are up and down. We have been talking everyday over text and some days video chat. We’ve had a good amount of dates not with and without our son present. She is definitely softening towards me but there is along way to go.
This process is slow, and my counselor explained that after feeling so hurt that she had to leave, our WAWs are hesitant because they don’t want to be hurt again. She has seen my changes and 180s and believes them, but is understandably skeptical.
There hasn’t been any disrespect from here and she no longer brings up the hit list. Intimacy is good but not at a level I am happy with. Could be awhile before it improves greatly but I am trying to be patient.
Other than that, things are good, I’ve kept up with GAL and am having a ton of fun with my S.
