What ju ju said all the way. And spackling is such a great turn. And I am the queen of spackling ! Most times it’s me questioning myself because I don’t know if I’m supposed to feel the way I do. Sometimes I think it’s me giving the benefit of the doubt. Often times it’s me making excuses. But I cover up the holes that are in relationships.
If you told him what you need and he said he would do a, b, and c, and he still does not, then you do need to decide if this is what you want.