Really at a point now where I just want things settled once and for all. For the longest time I wanted an official separation agreement and would see where the chips fell regarding actually filing for D. The string of disrespectful and bizarre events from W continues to grow and I am now just at a point where outright D needs to happen. We have been separated for the 1 year required by provincial law and could officially get it done now. I feel kind of strange in a way, in a way I would like to thank her. My outlook on life, what I have learned about relationships, what I have learned to expect from future partners when that time comes, and just generally where I am at with myself are all thanks to this process. In a very odd way I want to thank her for all the BS. While it has still been very hard along the way and a tough thing to accept her actions have made letting her go much easier. Unfortunately the major hurdle in front of me now is not her but our insane legal system where I live. Basically I have no recourse to her constant delays. My lawter has drafted a settlement and presented it but she continues to ignore the matter. She ignores me, she ignores my attorney and she ignores her attorney. That leaves me with one, take her to court. The process is starting but it will empty about $50k out of my bank account and it looks like the earliest court date would be November of next year. The silliness of all of this just blows my mind, I don't have anything to fight about, we stick to the guidelines of the family law act in regards to the kids, we split the fiances, the furniture and household items I don't really care about and would not argue over. We could settle things so easy if she wanted to. Anyways, that's my rant for today, hope everyone has a great day.
