D13 is having a really hard time today. I can't seem to find a lot of good books and information for teens going through what she is experiencing. Most seem geared to little children or geared toward two people splitting on wonderful terms with both parents mentally and emotionally stable. Talking with a friend last night got me questioning myself. How do I help prepare D13 in dealing with a narcissistic mother and at the same time not cross into bashing XW. Should I even be helping at all in that area? Then there is the questioning of am I the one who needs the help and should someone be preparing or giving D13 the tools to deal with me?


1st BD December 26, 2008
PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008

2nd BD May 23, 2019
Daughter confirms EA
Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019