Over - her and I weren't planning on having more kids. I don't think I said that in a blaming tone it was just stating the truth. The reality is that divorce isn't what's best for kids - there have been enough studies to show that. At this point I'm not trying to win her back I'm just stating the facts and being honest.

As for controlling and clingy - I only talk to her when I see her on the 2 days/week she sees our son. I don't call, text, email (unless an emergency or something she should be aware of about our son). She's on her own and I'm doing my thing.

Moving forward I'm not going to tippy toe around her. I'm trying my best to not say too much but when I have something to say I want to be honest.

Plus, we are about 10 months in and I still don't recognize this new person and there are no signs that she is close to returning.

Last edited by jac12; 10/03/19 11:13 AM.
H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019