Things have been up and down like a rollercoaster this past 3 weeks since he moved out. He phoned me one day last week and said he would leave his job to make our relationship work. Then phoned the next day to ask about taking me on a date.
On Saturday he came round to watch the kids while I went out with friends. He was meant to be on the sofa however when I came home late he was in our bed. He became very paranoid and jealous, demanding to see my phone and saying he didn’t trust me. I didn’t show him my phone.
H then spent sun and Mon crying with his head in his hands refusing to speak to me. He wasn’t supposed to be staying but he wouldn’t leave. He didn’t go to work. I asked him to seek help for himself.
He treated me awfully at weekend and after saying that he had ended it with ow I logged on to my computer only to find ow had sent him her childcare invoices for her kids. I didn’t snoop, he had left emails open from being round at weekend. He refuses to pay for ours. So I phoned him and hit the roof. He said he was printing it off for her and nothing else.
I spent the next few hours in a text row and ended it with you choose to continue a relationship with her which means you don’t get to have one with me.
And now it’s me feeling awful again today for saying terrible things despite my hurt because I know his head isn’t in a good place either.
Do you think I should apologise for saying hurtful things or leave it be now?
