I don't like how you complained to your W that you may not have more kids. It comes off like you blame her. Same with the divorced parents aren't best for kids statement. Logic won't work. Your W will just think you are being controlling, clingy, and that you haven't heard her.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.