Sounds a lot like my sitch. I was in your shoes a year ago. If she wants to "talk about us" again, you really need to slow play it. Keep your cards close the vest. A great DB phrase is "Believe nothing they say and only half of what they do". Keep that phrase in mind alwasy.
WW wants to talk again this coming Saturday... I'm not reaching out at all. What do you mean "slow play"?