I would like to know from the vets. When a WW starts to question her choices and the A fog lifts ever so slightly, is that not the time to be there for support rather than alienating her? Showing her that I'm the better option?
She's asking for separation and until she is kicking the door down to change that you need to listen to her and give her what she wants, but stopping all the BS with her frequent visits and talks.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
