LH, I don't think it's that I'm confused. I don't think I want to go directly to D at the time I bring up OM. I'm wanting to see how she responds when she's outed and if it take's D because she won't give up OM, then that's what I'll go with.

Me 48, W 47
T30, M24
D22, S18
BD 7/6/2019