So I'm still on the fence about where I'm headed with her. I don't feel I want to live in this limbo any longer knowing that she is with OM. I would prefer to work on the M, but that's in her hands. If this goes to separation or divorce, then I think I'm fine with that.
I was thinking of having a short talk with her to get it out that I can't keep living like this and that she needs to decide what she wants. Not sure if I'll bring up the OM or separation/divorce in this convo.
What I'm looking for is if anyone has any direction that I can take on this.
