I guess the question is, are you willing to divorce her over this? My guess is yes because you already filed. Was that done out of principle or desperation?
I did it to enforce the boundary and after she stated "its over" but I've heard that before from her. Especially during a manic episode and her lashing out in anger. I have not signed the papers yet as my L is still drafting the dissolution and other necessary paperwork to file. My hope is that the service would shock her into the reality that she could lose me. Plus I'm still so angry over the fact she continues to lie about the affair and try to make me question my own sanity.
