Things have been great with bf. I know it’s early and I know that time tells all. The things I like so far are that he really makes huge amounts of effort and that he’s really invested in me and in our relationship.
I think that should be the first on every one”s must have list . If the person your dating does not demonstrate that early on, I think they are just not into you enough and it’s just never gonna be great. I love CL’s term “spackle ”. I was a spackler- just covering up all the crap from guys that were not worthy.
My ex husband was never that into me early on. Actually told me when we first met “I will call you in 3 days”. Current bf can’t wait to talk to me and see me. Last boyfriend was so passive when he should have been assertive and inappropriately aggressive. Having now experienced someone that is just so enthusiastic and appreciative - I will never tolerate what i did. But I’m really hoping that this is it for me.
