In keeping with the old traditions we have decorated the house for Halloween and plan on going overboard for Christmas. We like the feeling it gives us as we walk into our house. We have been invited to a Halloween party and have already gotten D13's costume. She wants to be Piglet and her friends will be Pooh, Tiger, and Eeyore.

Both of us wanted to go on a road trip and we are desperately trying to layer memories over old ones. So we talked about what to do for Christmas and she has decided that she wants to go to Disneyland. We were there once before but she says the memory of it hurts her a lot because we had gone as a family that no longer exists. So off to Disneyland we go to create new fun filled memories.

All that aside I feel like it is difficult to get a new social life or be able to GAL as an adult. My life pretty much consists of work, raising D13, and house chores. I am having a great time and love it but not sure what I will do in couple years when D13 is driving and I am alone a lot more. I was a family man and loved every minute of it and was really looking forward to spending time with my XW when D13 got older and now I have to completely rethink what I want to even do. I am not afraid of being alone but just haven't really found anything that has caught my interest. I guess I will figure it out eventually.


1st BD December 26, 2008
PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008

2nd BD May 23, 2019
Daughter confirms EA
Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019