Well, as might be expected, the topic of actions and motivations is rearing it's ugly head again.
As I mentioned, WAW started a new job recently, and as a result, it's been very hard to find time for us to attend MC. Our counselor doesn't have night sessions, and WAW doesn't want to upset the apple cart at her new job by taking 90 minutes out of her day to attend sessions.
I'm not pleased with this, because I don't have any indications at all that she's actually doing anything close to what she said she needed the separation for. We're not working on anything, as far as I can tell she's not really any closer to an understanding of what she wants -- all that's happening is this purgatory where everything is in limbo.
(For some time reference, married two years, together seven, no kids, separated for four months.)
So, I'm torn. Common advice on here seems like it would be to detach, not put pressure on the situation, and focus on my own growth. NMMG might recommend voicing your displeasure, and not allowing yourself to feel like a secondary option or for your time to be wasted.
