I shake my head every time i read your comments Curtis.

I dont know you as a person, and i really dont want to come across as attacking, but you seem to be a door matt.. I dont want to get personal, but i dont know how you look in the mirror and have any self respect.

If people ask me about the biggest thing i would change ( i tried, pleaded, begged etc for approx 2 months prior to minding this site ) it would be not kicking her @$$ out sooner. Out of my whole sitch its the lack of self respect that still eats me up... I put up with it from October until December, then had cake eating for another month.. 2 to 3 months of crap.. Yes i've lost seing my kids daily, yes i am single at 39 and now i have a biggest mortgage.. But the thing that kicks me the most is my own stupid weekness when all this started..

Our sitchs are very similar.. I said that from day one.. we are about 2 months out of line in terms of time scale, but you are now nealry 12 months in and still in total limbo / denial...

Dude, you need to really get a grip and get your life in order... You have one life to live, and at the moment you are living it for somebody else. I really hope you snap out of this mindset and start to live for you and your kids.. Send the horse to the glue factory - ;-)

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Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..

Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.