Curtis. What if this place wasn't about divorce busting (Where it didn't potentially provide false hope, but yet pep talks on saving yourself and becoming a better person.) ? What if this place was just a little guy to guy hang out cafe? Tailgate, party or event? What if after talking to your buddies about your W actions, behavior, and screwing around with OM3, what do you think they would say to you? They would probably say something like: "Pack her $hit, off load, sell, or find another location for the horse, or charge rent for it, have some dignity and self respect, and take your ball$ back." You know why they would say that? Because they are emotionally detached from the situation. I know its hard to detach because you spent so many years, intimate moments, and vulnerability with this person. But let me ask you this? If this were a friend, acquaintance, or family member doing this to you. Would you respond the same way? Or would you put up real boundaries with real consequences, and distance yourself from this person to keep you emotionally healthy?