We have given you so much advice and you have chose to go against that advice in every single situation. Advice is an option you can choose to take it or leave it. But every time I read a post from you, it reaks of you kicking hope down the road to try to get your WW back, (she don't won't to come back at the moment). Allow her to be free of you trying to fix things.
You have all the ability to take your respect back. You knew your WW was still talking to OM3, you knew she was in contact with OM and still decided to go to an event the we explicitly told you it was for two people willing to work on the M. AS and I told you it would overwhelm your WW if you brought her there, and she got overwhelmed. That whole weekend made you look desperate and weak.
Now she wants to continue dialog (What does that even means). She wants to talk to you about her feelings, while on the end continue to make OM3 her #1 priority, while throwing you crumbs. Come on man!!!! Wake up!! Please!!! Have some dignity and self respect for yourself. Why would you even want that? Dialog, what are you and her going to dialog (talk about)?
Get out of her way, and move forward with you life. Everything you have done and I mean everything has been about you trying to control your WW and ya'll situation. I told you that months ago, that you need to stop trying control your situation and your WW with these obvious (trying to fix things) tactics.
You have lost control of this situation. I'm pretty sure one of your WW complaints have been about your controlling ways, and they are continuing, you done nothing to correct it.
Your WW has told she feels more for OM and wants space and time from you to feel what it's like to be separated. It's obvious she don't want to hurt you at the same time keep you as a plan B by leaving those tiny bread crumbs and you eat them right up.
I don't know what else or advice to give you. It's so frustrating reading your post. I don't get frustrated easily. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!
I hope I read a post from you one day soon, where you took some advice from this forum.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
