'd suggest though speaking to your L about these recent developments in the context of what duties you may have in continuing to act protectively of your daughter, particularly given the drug allegations.
Nothing can be done about her inviting some strange guy over in the morning because we are divorced and I never had that stipulation of no guys over put in the paperwork. My fault completely, but at the time I didn't think it would have been a problem.
Nothing can be done about the drug allegations because this drug is completely legal where I live. It might have been something to use in the divorce if we had fought over custody and visitation but I didn't need to fight she only wanted D13 for 52 days of the year. Since the divorce is final the judge would treat smoking pot the same as if she smoked cigarettes.
Besides that life is going great and D13 and I are planning a vacation during Christmas. We both agreed we need to start some new traditions while not completely throwing out the old ones.
1st BD December 26, 2008 PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008
2nd BD May 23, 2019 Daughter confirms EA Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019
