Here is a compelling explanation of why the MLCer would connect last with the LBS from a remorseful MLCer from another forum whose XH had moved on:

I would have reconciled with my ex h last because that would be the most difficult relationship to reconcile. Without my fog blanket I was so weak and I had to build up my nerve and strength to muster up the courage.


Here is a powerful first-person testimony to how MLC recovery works!