Kids are doing pretty well with all this. For the older ones, this new mom is very different so they are negotiating that new relationship. My oldest has the hardest time with this because the values and beliefs are so different. My middle one I think is the most skittish. When we have a disagreement, he is immediately triggered that the end is near. I do my best to help them buy know this is hard for them too.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
