D13 had her Friday and Saturday. She ignored D13 Friday and when D13 woke up and was coming down stairs she heard XW with a guy friend over and they were both laughing while talking trash about me. We are divorced so XW of course can have any guy friends she wants but D13 is having a hard enough time being over there and connecting, why would you surprise her with a strange guy first thing in the morning. D13 also says her house and car smell like pot and she thinks she is smoking it.. It isn't illegal here but for D13 it is just another thing that is making her feel like her mom is a stranger to her.

I told her to write both things in her journal and bring it up with her therapist. Luckily she calmed down quickly because I had made homemade soup which caused the house to smell amazing and then after eating took her over to a friends house and we played card games. When we got home she was down again so I held her until she fell asleep in my arms.


1st BD December 26, 2008
PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008

2nd BD May 23, 2019
Daughter confirms EA
Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019