I took some time to re read the lighthouse . The part in the story where it says but I know this so you can’t hurt me really just touched me today . I got more of the “ kids need to get used to both of us not being there for them “. I didn’t even respond to that part of his message the rationale of H blaming me for taking a little bit to call our son back because some how I wanted time alone . Non sense
Praise .... H spent time at home with kids over a few days though I distanced. Is this something to praise . The children really enjoy it . H enjoys it too . So hard to keep a friendly neighbor or act as if but give praise. Then somewhere I read to praise the good .
Still doing pursuit and distance dance . Me doing more GAL today . Another great day with friends and also time with son .
Boundaries are tough but I’m starting to come to terms with them . I can no longer be weak or jump at crumbs .
