I think being passive is part of my 180 but also makes me appear weak . I have always been the pursuer, never really passive . The planner and very opinionated. Now working on distance and detaching . Lesson learned on pursuit . He offered to have a breakfast date . I declined . I offered a different time later . He agreed . Then called to say he wasn’t coming . Rather then argue which I normally would do . I said I will call u back . I never did . Went and read a book . Watched a movie . Talked to friends . I didn’t call for the simple fact of I can not let his decisions effect my mental status . It was clearly noticed . I didn’t respond to it today when he texted this morning because of the way it was communicated which was harshly .
