the therapist believes for the next 3 months to a year it would be in D13's best interest to lessen the visitation time with XW.
Finally someone with reason. The general consensus is that it's in the best interest of the child to have a relationship with the WAS when sometimes it's just not. Sometimes kids need to heal first from being left behind before reestablishing a relationship with the WAS.
As far as do WAS's know what they are doing to their kids? Depends on the WAS. My WAH assumed he could leave and the kids would understand. Society says kids will be just fine after a divorce. Most kids are fine but some aren't. Its a gamble.
