I guess my first question is would a letter acknowledging what i have done and showing remorse be an act of validation or pursuit.i fully accept my emotional instincts are probably gravely wrong and selfish at this time. I would struggle to demand I move back into the house at this time without causing trauma to the kids. I intend to contact her tomorrow to ask her how she envisages me exiting the business as in order to obtain a rental property I will need proof of employment.i think this would also be the time to agree wether the original agreement on sale of house and splitting of proceeds stands.if only to be able to co parent the kids.
