I totally understand where you’re coming from when you say your tired. I also always remember your story not following the script that we see here so many times. I believe I even once said that IMO if your W had a job and her OM was accessible she would have most likely divorced you. Until they get out there and experience reality the fantasy never goes away.
I like you wasn’t the greatest husband for the first 13 years but was able to show my ex the best of me for a year and a half but it wasn’t enough to overcome the 13 not so good years. I’m still a true believer that true reconciliations only happens after time and space. Maybe a separation isn’t a bad idea.
Take some time and process your emotions and see how you feel in a few weeks.
Best of luck to you Steve.
Yes, I need to remain patient. Thanks. I've come this far, I can hold out a little longer. I actually got excited by the prospect of separating, and eventually divorcing. Very similar to where I was last Dec.
Originally Posted by neffer
You can´t act on emotions Steve. You have done a long journey. You know who you are. You know what you deserve.
Completely agree with LH, it´s about DB basics:
Originally Posted by LH19
I’m still a true believer that true reconciliations only happens after time and space.
We don´t live on crumbs. Face your life Steve. Be proud of where you stand.
Well the space hasn't been a problem! I have been GAL to a fault. But I need to remain patient, and let things progress.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
