Hi there, sorry you are here. It sounds like a very tough situation.
This board is a fantastic resource and is full of great people who give lots of advice.

Looks like you are identifying the issues that need addressing; that's a really big first step.

All I'd say is make sure you post a lot - keep everyone updated on what's going on. It really helps. Get the DR book if you haven't already.

Have you sought any therapy, for yourself?

Read all the links above - many of them are invaluable.

Most importantly - GAL and Detach for now.

Last edited by DaB35; 09/27/19 05:02 PM.
Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020