I can relate to so many things you struggle with. I describe myself as a family man as well, my family was always #1 and who I wanted to spend most of my time with. All of my friends are married too, and I don't want to be a third wheel. It can be very lonely at times.
Rest assured, how you are feeling right not is not how you will feel forever. It's a process and you will hurt for a while. But then it will start to get easier.
No one here will give up on you, we know your pain. Keep coming here and posting. We will all get through this nightmare together.
Thorn
Thank you. I need all the help. I’m sorry you went through this too. I have to really focus more on myself something I’m not use to. I know everyone says in time you will get better. I really don’t know if I will truly ever get over the situation. I will keep posting and hopefully get better little by little.
AS you are right. I never went full bore. The one thing I have been doing a lot of is working out. I go to the gym a lot and put extra time in. People have noticed so that makes me feel good. Other than that I joined a flag football team, we play on sundays. I now coach my son’s flag football team. So I do things to stay active.
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M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20