Much of the same has gone on over last 2 days . Few dates a lot of contact from him but at his convenience. If I can not make it or offer a different time then it’s a no go . I took some time to read through the links posted . I need to at this point have some serious boundaries . This is some serious cake eating and though I enjoy spending time with my husband and my goal is to R. This can no longer go on as it’s now becoming me just saying yes to everything . So question with boundaries . Do I clearly state ..... I will no longer sleep with you without commitment? Do I decline every invite or just some of them ?