WMLC - Thoughts appreciated!

[peacetoday]

I dont think the threat of loss of financial and splitting custody will snap them out of MLC

I do think many will get angry when they see the loss, and again project it on to us-

Blame the LBS like we are not being fair when they walk away with half or sometimes less than half depending on who is really going to be raising the kids

I have heard the chances may be better for R if the mlc stays in the home
But some can stall for years staying the home while having multiple affairs and them move

There will be no way to actually know if any tactic will work or backfire
but generally DB asks us to stay put,,,dont rush into anything..give them space ands time and work on yourself-

sorry I know you want a formula but with MLC there is none-