Update: I suggested to W Monday morning of this week that we discuss possible custody arrangements on Tuesday evening. She agreed. She then asked to move to Thursday evening (tonight) and has just asked to now move it to tomorrow, which I agreed to, as I am truthfully in no rush to get a D. The reasons given were that she was tired, etc. The purpose of my asking to begin the discussions was because I feel there is a chance (if even a small one) that once when she starts seeing what will happen with the kids, finances, etc., as we move toward a D, she MAY not be so positive that a D will make her happy. Wishful thinking? Likely, but does anyone have any experience with this? FYI, we are very civil to one another and this is not what I would term a "broken household." She is desperate to get rid of her unhappiness, which she has projected onto me at the moment.