D13 had her second therapy session and afterwards the therapist came out and surprised me. She said it would be a good idea to change the visitation schedule for D13's emotional health and stability. I am not in the therapy sessions and what they discuss is confidential but the therapist believes for the next 3 months to a year it would be in D13's best interest to lessen the visitation time with XW.
I really don't want to get the lawyer involved for this so I am hoping to construct a carefully written email to XW with the request provided by D13 and her therapist.
D13 Plan of Action Step 1: Provide D13 with the tools and resources to gain an emotional stability that will help her be a confident healthy individual. Step 2: For D13 to feel safe and comfortable around XW and her new place so she can stay there. Step 3: To develop a new healthy relationship which enables more time to be spent together with XW.
Unfortunately this process will likely take years and all the steps may never happen. Love to hear peoples thoughts on this.
1st BD December 26, 2008 PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008
2nd BD May 23, 2019 Daughter confirms EA Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019