My preference is to bring this up in our next MC which is unfortunately not until mid October. I want to tell my W this is not working for me - the custody and the finances. Is it a mistake to avoid confronting her until MC? I know I shouldn’t fear her but she will absolutely flip out if I do this outside of MC. I guess that’s her problem though right? Alternatively I could move up the appointment to an earlier date?
If you are more comfortable bringing this up in MC, then that is fine. However, in the meantime you should probably plan for what you will do if you cannot reach an agreement. One thing you need to ask yourself is at what point you think it is justified for you to retain a lawyer and start fighting for your rights. That being said, standing up for yourself is the first step.
