Just journaling a bit, but I'm amazed at how much I have changed over the last 10 months. Going from being miserable, terrible with finances, lost and confused to now happy as can be, doing very well with the finances, and knowing exactly what direction and where I want to go. I know I wasn't as active on here as some others going through the same as I spent so much energy on myself but i make it a point to check in and do some regular reading because this place has really helped me with this complete transformation. My personallity has changed for the better and I like where things are going, I still have more work to do but my life has greatly improved since the first few months after BD.


M(32) W(30)
Together 12yrs
Married 2yrs
ILYBNILWY 11/23/18
EA Discovered 3/20/19

In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19
W Moved out 3/20/19
M Moved out 5/31/19
W Filed for D 3/3/2020