Ovrrnbw, thanks for all the input. I'm not concrete on how I want to handle it right now, just trying g to come clear with all my options so I have a clear path to follow when the time's right. With bringing up the her infidelity with OM, I believe you're right that it needs to be raised if/when it gets to divorce/separation.
And yes, weathers been beautiful, just using it to complete some outdoor projects before it gets cold.
