Originally Posted by TBSakaJ9

Things have picked up a little but I am still just hanging out, hooking up and having fun smile


So, this might sound like a loaded question, but I'm really just genuinely curious. At what point does it go from the 3 H's to an actual committed relationship for you? I mean, from this angle, it looks like commitment, but from your description of 3 h's it sounds like just a casual fling. I am fascinated by how people think and what makes them tick, so that is where the curiosity stems from. And, I can always stand to learn a thing or 2 from people who think differently than I do.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids