This is where you man up and hold your ground. She doesn’t call tonight you call her and say you said we would talk about it tonight. Who gives a fuch if her life is tough, part of the consequences. It’s not D or bust there are in betweens. It starts with you getting what you want and what is fair. She’ll be pissed but she will secretly respect you for it.
School yard moment when you stand up to the bully.