Midlife wife crisis10

[Wolfman]

W,

I won’t beat you up for the rest. You’re still trying to use logic and reason. If it made you feel better then get it off your chest. Just remember the like e rebellious teenager the more you tell her what to do and how it’s going to be the more she will rebel to prove you wrong.

I forget about that. That she has no logic. Because if she did we wouldn’t be here. I notice she just wants to go out and party more and more. It’s sickening to me. Definitely not the woman I married. That “woman” was all about family and being together. She is no longer there. I will try to remember to not use logic with her anymore it gets me nowhere. She is chasing happiness. That is her journey though. I feel bad for my kids and the way she is. The other day I went over and my son had his head down on the dining room table crying. I said what’s going on. My w said in a very angry tone that he has a project due tomorrow and he has had over a week to do it. So she said she was not going to help him, he was on his own. My son replied while crying but all the parents help the kids. She said no the don’t you need to figure this out on your own. Then she left and went for a walk. I took my kids for a bike ride, when we got back I encouraged him to get it done and that helped and he finished most of it. Like I said she is gone. She has gone into super selfish mode.

Not helping the kids, spending lots of money on herself, going out late at night, and just completely miserable most of the time. No idea who she is anymore.

MLC thank you for that. You are right it’s not what I want to hear. It’s very difficult at least for me to deal with this. Why? Because I don’t want this and yet I have to move forward with it!!!!