I cheated, we survived, now my wife's cheating

[JC08]

She can't decide what she wants. Like I said last week she started to encourage me to date the OW who IO haven't spoke to in months and months.

Then last night I text her about some concert tickets we had bought. I have a group of friends going to a concert and in May we were invited, she was so excited about going and we bought tickets off of Stub Hub, of course now we are separated and clearly wont be going together. I asked her to send login info for Stub Hub as she said I could have the tickets. She then asked me if I was taking this OW. I just responded, really? Then asked for login information again. She then begged me I could take anyone, just don't take this OW.

She is dating someone, she spends every free minute with him, weekend getaways, and yet she wants a say in my private life?

I just didn't respond. My plan was to actually sell the other ticket because I have no desire to go with anyone else, and selling the ticket would pretty much cover the other cost of weekend.

What should have my response been? She's the one wanting a divorce, not me. Is this just cake eating? I'm not the one involved with someone else, its almost been a year from her finding out about the OW, she is the one that is wayward now.

Thanks