I'm frustrated that she just doesn't really appear to be "working" on anything - her words were that she wanted the S to remove us from our negative behaviors, and for her to understand what she wanted and whether or not there was a future for the MR. Well, she just appears to me to be working and volunteering her self to death, and I know her well enough to do it's because she doesn't really want to think about or process anything painful.
My WAH isn't coming back so my situation is different than yours. My WAH has done little more but work a lot since he left 6 months ago. He's either avoiding pain or he's saving money for his attorney.