I guess it has been a bit so i will provide an update.
My parents have been in town for the last two weeks staying at my house. It has been nice having them in town but I have been missing my alone time. This past weekend was the Dr's sons birthday so I got to meet her mom for the first time and my parents also got to meet her, her mom and her sister. I also met her xh at the birthday party. No issues, everyone got along real well, no red flags that came up. It was actually really nice and it seemed that everyone fit well together. Her mom is 74 but an old 74, her sister is 49 and kind of chatty cathy but they are all super nice people. Her xh was fine. I can see why they didnt work out, he is very arrogant and a used car salesman ( he is in sales but when I met him that is what he reminded me of). He was cool though, no issues, I shook his hand, the Dr. introduced us and then when I left I made a point to go shake his hand again and told him it was nice meeting him. Again, no issues.
She has still not met my mom or stepdad yet which wont happen until the holidays.
In other news my oldest scored the game winning goal on Saturday so she was excited about that. I thought I was going to meet my xw's BF yesterday when she came to pick up the girls but it ended up being her BF the came into town for the weekend. When my XW texted me she said "we are on our way" which is why I thought it was her BF.
So I guess that is it, not much else exciting going on. My parents approved of the Dr., they also got to see her son in action and their take on the situation is that he is just immature, an only kid, very tender, and doesn't have any men in his life to model himself after. The important people in his life, the ones he spends all of his time with are women. His mom, nanny, grandma, and aunt. His dad only 4 days a month and he won't enroll him or take him to any activities if does not fall on his 4 days of the month. He also lives about 45 minutes away. My dad told me I could really be a positive influence on his life.
Things have picked up a little but I am still just hanging out, hooking up and having fun
