Sorry Roo I missed that you worked at her school. It seems quite common with the American members on this forum that there are lots of small communities where everyone knows what everyone is up to. That must be tough on you guys especially in the horrible situations of divorce.

There's a very wise vet here called DnJ who raised his children. I'd recommend reading his sitch. He's inspirational.

All the best to you and your D!


Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24