I am also completely on fence as to if he is a walk away or MLCer. He’s 36 I am 39. But he is also very inconsistent. Says he’s never moving back in yet spend quite a bit of time here . Parties hard at times but then full blown crashes . He hasn’t really spewed any hate in the last month or so . Seems completely comfortable being in and out . The only time I really get any type of what he’s feeling is when he doesn’t see me for a few days and has no idea what I am up to . Then its we both did this to our marriage . I just had the courage to pull the plug on it . Next day will be over and back in the bed and out the door next day .